The In-Between-Trovert’s Guide to Card Distribution

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Maybe you find yourself somewhere between being an introvert and an extrovert. You’re not really into squeezing through a dense crowd just to get closer to the stage at a concert, even if you’re a big fan of the band. At the same time, you don’t prefer hiding in the corners at parties, hoping no one approaches you—you actually enjoy conversations, even if starting one doesn’t come easily. You’re generally pretty law-abiding, but you’re also open to taking a little risk, as long as it doesn’t lead to any harm to people or property.

Libraries, Community Centers, and Churches: You are so polite, you always ask permission    

Almost always, these spaces have a spot to display your cards, but you may need to ask first. At the library, start at the main desk. If there’s a bulletin board, be sure to put up two cards so both sides are visible (bring some push pins!). If it’s a counter or table, place just a few cards and plan to return in a few days or a week to see if they need refilling.

Community centers are different from place to place. Athletic centers probably aren’t ideal for our grassroots political campaign, but general-purpose centers can work very well. They usually have a designated spot for cards, and the general or operations manager might even suggest good times to pass out cards and chat. You’ll be surprised how often people in these places are willing to help; they truly are community hubs.

Churches also vary in how much they serve as community centers and how open they are to political activities, so some research might be helpful. Unless they’re very small, they’ll have a business manager. Be respectful of that person’s role as the gatekeeper and start by talking with them first.

Borrow from the Extroverts:  Adapt the Event in a Park Party for art and wine shows and food fairs in the park

In-betweeners can chat with strangers. The prospect of talking to someone new might make you feel a little nervous, but it can also be pretty exciting! Think of it as a good opportunity to try out having a casual chat without any pressure or a specific agenda. That’s right, no need to make a big point, just focus on getting to know the person you’re approaching. Who knows what wonderful opportunities might come from these friendly exchanges!

Art, wine, and food fairs share a welcoming vibe. Folks are happily strolling around, enjoying snacks, drinks, and the lively atmosphere. If you find yourself waiting in line to buy something, why not start a friendly chat? At an art show, you might ask someone if they’re shopping for themselves or for a gift. That simple question can spark a good conversation! Most folks love to talk about themselves, so give them the space to do so. If you feel a genuine connection (you’ll know it when you feel it, so no rush), consider sharing a card from your handbag and saying, “When you have a free moment, take a look at this.” Finish with a warm “It’s been a pleasure to meet you,” and then enjoy the next friendly encounter.

You May Be Asking, Why Go to This Much Trouble Just to Hand Out 5–10 Cards?

Because the connections you make here can lead to greater opportunities:

  • You could form a lifelong friendship.
  • You might profoundly change someone’s perspective.
  • You could learn something new yourself.
  • You might discover something new about yourself.
  • You could spark someone’s interest in learning and sharing facts.
  • You can help make the campaign a positive and welcoming experience for everyone.

The Other Guides: For Introverts and Extroverts

Both guides offer ideas that might work for you. The introvert’s guide includes some sneaky and fun methods, and, surprisingly, the extrovert’s guide has useful techniques that can help too. Check them out.

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